Start the New Year off with a bang with our 2021 Sexual Resolutions Guide.
The holidays have come and gone! Now begins the guilt-trip phase where committing to becoming better a person, partner, and lover is at the forefront! But as we all know, making pledges typically fall by wayside faster than you can say Be My Valentine!
We at Liberator know this struggle all too well. That’s why we decided to come up with a 2021 Sexual Resolutions Guide, where your stick to your best-laid plans!
Make 2021 the Sexiest Year Ever!
A year of amazing sex is not just about having a good time (although that certainly doesn’t hurt) it is also about generating health and happiness both physically, emotionally and spiritually. After all, sex is known to lower the risk of heart attacks and strokes, decrease high blood pressure, reduce depression, relieve headaches, and improve sleep quality. In addition to these health benefits, sex help open the dialogue between you and your partner.
Make a plan with us to fulfill these resolutions, and you will be a happier and healthier you by 2021.
2021 Sexual Resolutions: More Quickies
We know that your calendar is packed, and sex with your partner sometimes takes a backseat to work or life events. Even when there is time for sex, you may feel too exhausted from the day’s schedule. This year, take fifteen minutes between that daily to-do list and ravish your partner (or yourself) instead.
While a quickie might seem like a temporary fix versus a passionate night dedicated to hours of lovemaking, a speedy romp can be as exciting. The more you have sex, the stronger your desire for sex becomes. All those quickies add up!
2021 Sexual Resolutions: Focus on Your Partner
We’re all guilty of being selfish from time to time. So, take time this year for letting your special someone know how much they are adored. It’s easy, simply shower them with attention without expecting anything in return. Make your partner’s pleasure is a priority, though. Perhaps a long massage or a night of sensational oral. Not only will you experience the immense satisfaction of your partner’s happiness, but the connection will translate into a stronger intimate connection. And if you don’t have a special someone—focus on yourself instead!
2021 Sexual Resolutions: Ask for More
Communication and trust are two of the biggest elements in a healthy sexual relationship. But it’s a whole lot easier said than done! That’s partly due to believing we must be a mind reader or that our desires will be rejected if we ask for them because they are “inappropriate.” We might not know how to phrase our needs properly or feel silly saying the words out loud. A strong and healthy relationship is defined by two partners who have the desire for making each other deliriously happy. Your partner will get joy from seeing you enjoy yourself. So, don’t be afraid of speaking up and letting your partner know what feels good. The more direction you provide, the more confident your partner will feel and the more pleasure you will receive. If you are feeling shy about vocalizing your intimate desires, try sending your partner a naughty text to start the conversation.
2021 Sexual Resolutions: Learn Something New
We all have sexual fantasies but some of us may feel too shy about taking the plunge. Make 2021 the year where you commit to learning something new. When you learn, you grow and so does your sexual relationship. Any worthwhile discovery doesn’t come without facing a few challenges. , Even if it ends up not being your thing, you’ll have something to giggle about with your friends. Whether it is attempting a new position, engaging in a threesome, trying your hand at sex outdoors, or experimenting with a new toy, this is the year for taking deep breathes and diving in deep!
2021 Sexual Resolutions: Masturbate More!
Want to increase your sexual appetite in 2021? Try masturbating more! Solo pleasure time is one of the best ways of getting to know your body and soul. Creating a positive connection to yourself is also a building a stronger intimate connection with your partner too.
So embrace passion, explore your desires, and live it up in 2021!
2021 Sexual Resolution: Come Together More Often
Having simultaneous orgasms may seem as elusive as winning the MegaMillions Jackpot, but it’s easier than you think! According to a survey conducted by Lovehoney found that almost four out of 10 couples (37%) share orgasms at least half the time they have sex. In half of cases, one partner reaches their trigger point and waits for the other half to catch up, according to the survey of 4,400 people. Coming together does not have to be wishful thinking, as there are a few things you can do to boost your chances of synchronized success. Here are just a few tips you can try as part of #2021SexGoals
- Edging is the ultimate way of getting your body parts charged for orgasms. It’s also a great way of getting to know how the body reacts just before “discharge.” Try bringing each other as close to the line and possible and then stop before the wave is about to hit. Practice this a few times and you will discover that this will bring you closer to coming together.
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Not every woman can come with just penetration alone. In fact, most women require external clitoral stimulation which it why it’s important to find a mutually benefitial position. Using the Liberator Wedge during Missionary can help tilt her hip upward so that the shaft of penis can provide direct contact.
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Or better yet, try using the Liberator Whirl with the spooning position and reach in to manually stimulate her clit while entering her from behind.
- Coming Together more in 2021 is achievable with the help of couple’s toys. We love the LELO Tiani 3. This wearbale vibe curves over the clit and provide direct clitoral stimulation. Another option, is using a slimlined toy like the Zumio S Caress. It’s extended stylus fit perfectly between lovers and hits the sweet spot everytime.
2021 Sexual Resolutions: Don’t forget to Enjoy Your Sex Life
All of these pledges will absolutely make 2021 a year to remember. But one thing that will make it unforgettable is remaining in the moment. Enjoy every second of your sex life by staying present. Relish the quickies and all-nighters. But also, set aside time for foreplay and experimentation. So, embrace all the passion that sex has to offer and live it up in 2021!
How are you going to make 2021 the sexiest year ever? Let us know your sexual resolutions in the comments section below!
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