May 17, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller
When it comes to sex, we could all benefit from a few pointers because great sex is usually something we have to figure out on our own. On previous episodes of the show, we’ve talked about things like expanding your definition of sex, learning how to communicate what you want, and building up your sexual self-confidence. We’re going to take it a step further today and talk about some of the finer details. We’re going to explore how you can get even more pleasure from several specific sexual activities, from masturbation to oral sex to intercourse to kink.
I am joined once again by Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and host of the Love and Libido podcast. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
- How mixing up your masturbation routine can unlock new sources of pleasure and enhance partnered sex.
- How to have better oral sex.
- How to make penile-vaginal intercourse more pleasurable and increase the odds of mutual orgasm.
- How to have comfortable and pleasurable anal sex.
- How to make role-play fun and enjoyable instead of stressful and awkward.
- What you need to know about sharing and acting on sexual fantasies.
- Why it’s important to step out of your comfort zone from time to time.
Check it out! To learn more about Emily, visit her website at emilyjamea.com As a special deal for listeners, Emily is offering 50% off her online sex ed workshops (available on her website) with the coupon code: HALFOFF
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Founder & Owner of Sex and Psychology
Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.