About JoEllen JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead. JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex...
Safe Words And Traffic Lights: How To Say Stop In BDSM During your explorations of the BDSM world, you may have come across the terms safewords and traffic lights. What are BDSM safe words, and what do traffic lights have to do with the exciting world of power exchange, kink and fetish? What Are BDSM Safe Words?...
Realistic dildos – the most basic, and occasionally essential of the sex toys. There are a lot of options on the market, but when people think “sex toy” the common vision that comes to mind is a veiny dong. The sex toy industry has made leaps and bounds in regards to technology the past few...
MY BOOK TOUR HAS BEEN POSTPONED So, it seems I jumped the gun a bit in announcing my tour yesterday. In the last 24 hours several venues have cancelled and I have come to the conclusion that me ping-ponging all over the country is probably not wise in terms of virus containment. The upshot is that...
Hey folks! So I know a lot of us are isolating at home right now and it’s a scary time so a lot of us are probably anxious and scared and generally not feeling great about stuff. It can be easy to get so worked up with fear and anxiety that we let go of...